It just does not matter, so get over it!
In divorce cases, too many people want to make sure the Judge knows why the marriage failed and that it is the other spouse’s fault. Unless it goes to custody, i.e., drug abuse, alcohol abuse, domestic violence, and so on, the judge does not care because the law does not care. It does not matter that your spouse has been having an adulterous affair unless he or she was “doing it” front of the children, and by “doing it,” I mean “doing it.” It does not matter your spouse is financially irresponsible. We now live in no fault divorce and it just does not matter. Get into counseling and or a support group, but get over it or your divorce will cost you so much more than it should, psychologically and financially. Read more →